Take some time to go through these questions and answer them honestly. It should cause you to think about your life in these 7 different aspects: Spiritually, Your Identity, Your Purpose, Marriage, Children, Work and Finance. It should help you better define yourself, identify areas of improvement, prayer points etc.Keep your answers somewhere safe and go back through them now and again to revise the answers as you learn more about yourself and grow more spiritually.
SPIRITUALITY
1. The way I feel about God is _______________________________
2. I think the way God feels about me is _______________________________
3. On a scale of one to ten, going to church is ____ in importance for my life and future.
4. Prayer is something I do when _______________________________
5. To me, the Bible is _______________________________
6. Eternal life is accomplished by _______________________________
7. The way to have a relationship with God is _______________________________
8. For me, including God in my daily life is _______________________________
9. On a scale from one to ten, obeying God and His word is a _________ to me.
WHO I AM
1. My biggest fears in life are _______________________________
2. My biggest needs in life are _______________________________
3. My most frequent mood is _______________________________
4. The thing I hate most is _______________________________
5. The thing I worry about most is _______________________________
6. Three things I want to change about myself are _______________________________
7. Three things I really like about myself are _______________________________
8. My most common daydream is _______________________________
9. I get angry when _______________________________
10. I think my greatest personality asset is _______________________________
11. My greatest personality weakness is _______________________________
12. I find the greatest enjoyment in _______________________________
13. The sin I struggle most with is _______________________________
14. I’m most ashamed about _______________________________
15. Someone I greatly admire is _______________________________
16. The way I feel about death is _______________________________
17. When someone is unfair, I _______________________________
18. My dream vacation would include _______________________________
19. My hobbies include _______________________________
20. I spend _____ hours a week at my hobbies.
21. The part of my body I am most bothered by is ___________________________
22. The part of my body I am most happy with is _____________________________
23. What hurts me most is _______________________________
24. The best (and worst) thing about life is _______________________________
25. The worst (and best) thing about the opposite sex is ________________________
PURPOSE
1. My biggest goal in life is to _______________________________
2. I find satisfaction in _______________________________
3. Before I die I want to _______________________________
4. I am here because _______________________________
5. My dream is to someday _______________________________
6. I will be ready to die when I’ve _______________________________
MARRIAGE
1. My reasons for wanting to get married are _______________________________
2. I think the keys to a good marriage are _______________________________
3. The biggest mistakes I made in past relationships are _______________________
4. The area I’ve grown the most in relationships is ___________________________
5. Relationships in the past have taught me _______________________________
6. I’ve always viewed marriage as _______________________________
7. My parents had a _______________________________ marriage.
8. I learned _______________________________ about marriage from my parents.
9. I think the things in marriage you should be honest about are _______________________________
10. The areas I’m concerned about being married are _______________________________
11. The areas I’m excited about being married are _______________________________
12. Marriage for me will be giving up _______________________________
13. Marriage for me will be gaining _______________________________
14. The best way to handle disagreements is to _______________________________
15. What I fear most about marriage is _______________________________
16. What I anticipate most about marriage is_______________________________
17. The thing that will make me most secure (and insecure) in marriage is _______________________________
18. Love is _______________________________
19. “Till death do us part” means _______________________________
CHILDREN
1. I think kids are _______________________________
2. Kids get on my nerves when they _______________________________
3. I love it when kids ________________________________
4. The way I feel about other people’s kids is _______________________________
5. The way kids usually feel about me is _______________________________
6. Kids should be disciplined when _______________________________
7. The way I want to discipline my kids is _______________________________
8. The role of a parent is _______________________________
9. I want ____________________ kids someday.
WORK
1. My idea of a dream job is _______________________________
2. I think the average number of hours a person can regularly work a week and maintain family commitment is
3. My career plans are _______________________________
4. My plans for retirement are _______________________________
FINANCES
1. I think money is _______________________________
2. Spending money is hard/easy for me because _____________________________
3. The biggest waste of money is _______________________________
4. The best investment of money is _______________________________
5. I have _______________________________ in personal debt.
6. I use credit cards for _______________________________
7. Saving up to buy big ticket items is _______________________________
8. My savings plan is _______________________________
9. My retirement plan is _______________________________
10. On a scale from one to ten, financial security is _____ in importance to me.
11. I want to save up to buy a _______________________________
12. Charities I (want to) contribute to are _______________________________
