I was curious to know what single men and women think about Toronto men/women. So I asked the question; starting with the men.
Please Note: These are the oppinions of 3 men and does not reflect the views of all men living in Toronto. The women they talk about does not also reflect all Ontario women.
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SRW : As a single man what has your experience been like with Toronto/Ontario women?
Man Speaks #1:
Boy, oh boy where do I begin when asked to talk about my experience with Toronto women. I could write a book but I'll try to keep it very short.
In my experience I have found that most ladies in Toronto want a man that who is financially stable, has a great car, a good job, a beautiful place to live, and is ready to get married right away. I don't blame these ladies, because I am not interested in dating a female who is on welfare but if a women is living in a bachelor apartment or at home and is unemployed but is ambitious and is driven to do something with herself I would be with her in a minute.
A lot of times when I meet a woman they think I'm cool and are excited to get to know me but once they hear that I live at home with my mother they usually go running really fast. Which makes me feel that I should not even approach a lady until I get some money in my pocket and move out, but then again there are the people who say it doesn't matter because if the person really likes you they'll make it work. However, I find it hard to make things work when your partner wants to go on vacation and you can't afford it, or they want to go to a cottage, expensive dinner etc.. and you just can't do it. I have friends who feel the same way. We know there is a minority of women who are financially stable, live in great homes, have great jobs and just want someone to respect them and be there to work with there partner and help him get to the next level but those type of ladies are hard to find and they are usually connected to the wrong person.
I do believe that Mrs. Right is out there but I am not going to waste my time looking her. I believe as long as I keep doing the things that I love to do she will come when I least expect it.
Man Speaks #2:
My thoughts on Ontario woman
After living in ON for well over a century now I find I have developed several close 'friendships' with several ON ladies. There are a lot of seemingly nice, genuine ladies out here and most of these friendships I know will be long lasting ones. Relationship wise things have not run so smoothly. Since living out here I ultimately would say my take on dating Ontario woman has been quite disappointing. I've been in approx 8-9 'true' relationships since living here (of which for a guy like myself is quite high I might add) and only 1 went beyond a 2 month period of time.
I find ON woman picture themselves as very confident, direct & honest but in reality most of them are realistically confused, hurt and very distrusting (even unfaithful themselves). Most seem to have impenetrable walls up so high up that even eagles would have difficulty flying over them. Tones are materialistic, so much into how a guy looks that they will put up for a lot of the crap that stems from one, and then lump the rest of men into the same boat.
Lots will talk a lot about what they are looking for but once they find it they decide they don’t want it no more or that they want something different it’s almost like they are never satisfied no matter what or who it is. They want a manly man but at the same time see the need to dictate how this 'manly man' should be, what he should wear and how much money he should make etc.
I find most if not all ladies here are extremely selfish without even realizing it in most cases, getting a ladies attention is one thing but maintaining it is the other. To me relationships are about giving and taking so if both decide to get involved both parties should work hard at maintaining it. Once an Ontario lady is into you (attracted etc) they will do pretty much anything a guy asks but once that interest fades even the slightest bit it’s like you don’t even exist to them no more.
At the end of the day I find a lot of ladies are talking the talk but not walking the walk, wherein they be seeking something long term, true & lasting, but not willing to put in the work or even making sacrifices if need be. They say ladies (particularly single black ladies) out-number the single men and you would think as a result a lot of us men would have a field day with all the choices out there but instead I find the ladies are the ones controlling whom they will 'allow' to step to them (approach them).
I mean I am in no ways perfect and would never claim to be but after dating several ladies ending up with almost identical outcomes it’s almost like to be happy out here I moreso would be better off ‘settling’ with one of the ladies that I am not even interested in or attracted to.
Men Speak #3:
A man can get a Toronto woman. However to do so, the number of tests you have to pass involve financial success (or potential) and where you meet them (passing a social test). I just feel that Toronto women are generally very judgmental financially and it doesn't matter what a woman looks like. And those men you do see with women, are either well off financially, potentially well off or have played a large numbers' game. As for women out of one's league, I find that most women in Toronto feel that men are out of their league. Its an attitude. A man can ignore it, but it is there. And I also see a lot of single men and women out there.
